I couldn't possibly blame you for not knowing who you are and wanting to figure it out.

Except that you can't ask people to make you someone, anyone, because you can only be yourself and you should learn that it alone is enough.

I couldn't rescue and save you, and it doesn't mean that you need to go searching for someone who could, because you alone can do it. We can only help you if you will help yourself.

And that I went from sick to better in front of your eyes doesn't grant you any credit for that same reason.

When you allow anyone to help you by rescuing yourself, just wave.