I wrote about this not long ago and it really is true: nothing is that complicated, really. It's all about taking facts into account and making your decisions. And if decisions are hard to make then try logic.

I won't take the blame for you.
I won't tell you it's okay and I understand.
I will not quietly accept that you weren't thinking because you should've been.
I will not pretend it's right or it's enough.

I will concede that what you do wrong doesn't cancel what you did right - but what you do right certainly doesn't cancel what you did wrong. It doesn't work like that.

It's not up to me.
I've done what I could and I can't do anything more.
I can't give you more than you've ever given me.